stop saying that the twins’ last name is “Vessar” and ppl are just forgetting.
no one has forgotten – the twins just aren’t using it, and with good reason. it’s the surname of a father who was negligent and cold at best, abusive at worst. it’s no surprise they wouldn’t want to identify with him, or that they don’t feel like they belong in his family enough to be identified by his last name.
stop trying to tack it onto them if they don’t want to use it. it’s not what they want their identities to be. they don’t want to be Syldor Vessar’s children, because he and his people made them (especially Vex) feel like they shouldn’t be.
“okay but taryon’s dad is an asshole too and he’s still using the last name” YEAH COZ THAT’S HIS CHOICE, which itself has a goal (he wanted to bring his own honor to the Darrington name, and now he’s trying to clean up the Darrington name), just as it is the twins’ choice to not use their father’s last name. respect that choice.
don’t reblog ppl’s gifsets saying “but their last name is Vessar, are ppl just really that forgetful lol” because a) no, b) NO, and c) you just look like an arrogant asshole when you do that, even if you do it with the best of intentions.
There’s a reason the cast called them “Mr. and Mrs. ‘ahlia”.