I did not know that in 7 states in America, you can carry out an abortion the day before you give birth (allows abortion at any time). Thatâs so fucking disgusting. And other states allow abortion up to 28 weeks. Thatâs not a ball of cells no more, thatâs a damn baby. Itâs good that abortion is legal but not the fucking late into the pregnancy đ·đ· nasty
You do know the reason abortion is carried out that late in a pregnancy is because of fetal abnormalities, right? Thereâs no woman that stays pregnant for 8 months and then decides âMeh, Iâm just gonna have an abortion instead.â
These women are not nasty, they are not evil, they are women who were so excited to welcome their little one into this world. They are women who had a nursery set up and baby clothes bought. They are women who excitedly waited for their due date, took belly photos and updated the world on how their pregnancy was coming along. They are the women who woke up one day and felt that their baby wasnât moving anymore. They are the women that felt in their gut that something was terribly wrong, just to have their worst fears confirmed.
They are the women who went to a regular checkup to find out that their baby is severely deformed and wonât live outside the womb, or will but only for a few days and suffer terribly the whole time. They are the women who have to make a decision to not let their baby suffer.
Women having abortions that late are not women who just decided to get an abortion 8 months into pregnancy. While that is there right to do so, know that isnât what happens. Know that that isnât the reality.
This is really upsetting to read but it is the truth, more people need to know this.
Something like 90% of abortions are first trimester, which is so early that the medical terminology vacillates between âzygoteâ and âfetusâ, and whatever the name, the thingâs the size of a pencil eraser and has 0% ability to survive outside of the womb.
The remainder are performed in the 2nd trimester, generally as a result of fetal abnormality or a severe congenital defect.
The vanishingly rare 3rd trimester abortions are generally for one of two reasons:
1) the life of the mother is in serious danger 2) the fetus is either dead or dying
So no. Women arenât just bouncing on coat-hangers at 37 weeks for a giggle, theyâre undertaking a serious medical procedure for a heartbreaking reason.
Iâve known someone in the position of carrying a dead fetus in her body. The kid had a name and a crib and handmade blankets and a mountain of toys. There were baby showers and a little plastic bath thing and those toys that are supposed to make baby smart. There was even a special backpack for taking the kid hiking.
If the first doctor she saw had listened to her, all that stuff might even have gotten used. But instead, the kid died that night. Her mother carried a corpse in her uterus for 3 days, running a horrible fever and coming close to organ failure.
So go fuck yourself if you think she should have died with the kid. Pro life, my big round ass.
These fucks know nothing. They donât understand that late abortions are 100% unwanted and break the motherâs heart.
Theyâre so self-righteous and self-absorbed they are incapable of putting themselves in the womanâs shoes.
Itâs part of the propaganda war against abortion. The âselfish slut who canât be bothered to be pregnant and doesnât care about the baby sheâs killingâ is easy to demonize and people have no problem denying her an abortion. The fact that she doesnât exist is incidental.
A woman I know recently had to carry a baby to term, because my Mediterranean, highly Catholic bullshit country has illegal abortion still. Her baby was developing without any brain tissue, and she found this out during her second trimester. She had to carry an essentially brain dead child for five more months, growing larger and larger like nothing was wrong, smiling and fielding questions from those not in the know about gender, due date, all the congratulations that must have hurt so much. She gave birth, and the baby died minutes later. They didnât even babtise it on time, so now itâs buried in unconsecrated soil, too. Because she obviously didnât suffer enough.
Now sheâs on suicide watch. I hope that makes you feel REAL.good. that no abortion took place.
It is not surprising news that fanfiction writers are highly underappreciated.
Thereâs something wrong with the numbers: letâs take a popular fic with almost 4k hits. For letâs say 700 readers, it will get about 50 comments and 300 Kudos (those numbers are just an example, sometimes itâs worse than that). Maybe Iâm being too kind, maybe not, but things stay the same; thereâs something wrong here. Can you see it?
It takes us days, weeks, sometimes months to write a story for you. We write for ourselves yes, but we also write to share. We write to offer you content about your favourite characters. We write to bring our and your ships to life. It takes you a fraction of second to leave a Kudos, ten seconds to one, two or a few minutes to leave a comment.
And here lies our problem: thereâs no proper sharing if thereâs no proper feedback. An author not getting comments is generally a sad author. If I didnât get feedback Iâd wonder whatâs the point in keeping on writing. A comment makes a writerâs day, most of the time even motivates them to write more.
Another important thing thrandythefabulous and I noticed: why on Earth do so many readers donât comment (even kudos) if the fic has been up for a little more than a week or two? Why? Your feedback is still welcomed and much appreciated.
We write for ourselves, but also we write for you. And sadly, many readers are being quite⊠ungrateful, when giving feedback is the least they can do to thank the people offering them stories for free.
So, before we get started on our little day, letâs talk about comments:
It doesnât matter if other readers already said what you wanted to say, weâll still love reading it again in your words.
It doesnât matter the fic has been up for weeks or months or years; comments on those ones are unexpected and so, it makes them ever better.
It doesnât matter if you donât have much to say, weâll be glad anyway.
Most authors leave the comment section open to people who donât have an Archive of Our Own (AO3) account, which means you can still⊠comment! How amazing is that.
That brings us to our little Fanfiction Writers Appreciation Day.
The point of this day is simple; on August 21st, writers and readers alike would go on AO3 (or any fanfiction website really), on Tumblr, and leave a comment on their favourite fics (even the fics they enjoyed!) and/or send their authors a message about their works.
It doesnât matter if youâve already or never commented. It doesnât matter if the author doesnât know about this post. It doesnât matter if the author already knows how much you love their work.
Just let writers know you love the fics they write for you, simple as that!
And well, donât forget to keep leaving a Kudos and a comment in the future, and make writers happy!
I donât at all agree that readers are ungrateful; they owe me nothing (and, in fact, the suggestion that they do makes me pretty angry).
But I love the idea of having a day to celebrate fic writers! Letâs do this, yisss
This is literally happening on my birthday. I swear, it was not my idea. But as presents go, this would be awesome. đ
(In return I will try to finish that last WIP of mine by then. âtis as good a deadline as anything.)
Look as much as I love the Traveler, the way he talks to Jester makes my skin crawl sometimes. Which is as it should be, as Iâm pretty sure heâs from the Feywild and yâknow, heâs got that Fair Folk morality going on.Â
Iâm like 90% convinced he tells all those kids âyouâre my favorite.â Theyâre a means to an end for him.Â
How many lonely little kids has he found, given magic powers, and promised to always be there for ⊠so long as they worship him.