hey so I’m not giving JKR any credit whatsoever for accidentally writing a nonbinary icon (bc if she’d meant to do it she’d never have shut up about it) but Tonks refuses to use even shortened forms of her heavily feminine given name with anyone except close family members and has The Classic Genderweird Dream Power of at-will minor shapeshifting and uses it to look punkishly androgynous with Cool Hair thank you for coming to my TED talk
Taliesin talks about who Mollymauk found attractive in the Mighty Nein, from this panel at nycc
(sorry the recording is not as good as the source, the original video was too long to download and I just wanted to isolate this clip so people can see the response easily)