anyway…. there is no wrong way to love women. there is a lot of (justified) complaint on here about f/f relationships being portrayed as too cutesy or desexualised, as a backlash to the oversexualisation of wlw in society, but that doesn’t mean it’s wrong to feel like that’s the best way to characterise your attraction. and it’s important to remember that relationships between women are multifaceted. you can go on picnics and hold hands in rose gardens and tell each other fairy tales and at the same time be sexually attracted to each other and not only is there nothing wrong with it but imo it’s beautiful that w/w relationships can have so many dimensions.